Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Dealing with the Pain of a Loss

I would like to begin with the sincere message - my heart goes out to all that have suffered losing a loved one.
To be completely honest our world consists of hatred and pain. That pain is transferred over to violence. The amount of hatred invested in people, is transferred into pain for the innocents. Death is something, that we as humans cannot control.
Positive Energy-
What we can control is how much we enjoy and value life, in exchange of radiating positive waves throughout the world. If we want things for others as we want for ourselves, we will radiate more positive energy. That can impact the world in a great way. It can be an outlet to spread happiness and decrease hatred. Not to say that death will decrease, however, happiness can save the soul of those that are still contained in innocence.
Grieving-
We as humans grieve. We all feel some type of pain, to the loss of a loved one. However, in order to save the dreams and complete ideals of the loss, what if we thought in a different way?
  • One day, I was told of an incident that occurred locally, where several people were lost. While we were discussing the incident, the person that was conversing with me, indicated that they felt really sad. Even though, we did not know these lost ones, we felt grief and a feeling of loss. But, I did not just want to sit there and think of loss, and just grieve over something that I had no control over.
Living for the Loss- 
I thought of what do I really value in my own life. I noticed that I care for my passion and my happiness. Therefore, I thought- that instead of grieving for those that we loose, what if we lived for them? What if we lived for those people in aspects of there passions? Because all people have desires, some people want to be doctors, lawyers, speakers, and all of aspects of passions. So what if we become those doctors, lawyers and etc. for them? What if we live there passions and try to become something for them, along with pursuing our passions? So live for those who were lost and spread happiness for those who were lost!

--B

P.S- Please spend all of those day spent with those you love, with great joy. Do not allow anything to revoke your happiness along with what you would like to pursue. As cliche as it sounds, we never know what moment could be our last. So love and be happy. 
Also by no means, I am saying that grieving is bad, I would just like to indicate a new meaning that you could give those who were lost.
Be happy and love love!
  

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